I recently saw that Mary K Letourneau was in the news and it took me back a ways. You remember her. The teachers that had sex with a 12 year old student, served prison time, a number of related Lifetime movies followed, she married the young man and had children with him. She was arrested Sunday night and booked into jail early Monday for failing to appear in court for a suspended driver's license case.
If you were or are a teacher I know enraged you were that she conducted herself in those days because it gave all teachers a bad name. We were lumped in with her behavior like all policemen were after Rodney King. But just like Randall, from the movie Clerks, says "title does not dictate behavior." Even though we are talking about convenience store employees, Randall is right. Title does not dictate behavior especially if you look at some our more recent local folks that should have lived by this mantra.
Lets not forget Perry County Sheriff was caught in a car with a man allegedly engaged in a sex act in Caseyville. What about Pastor Joshua Swain who allegedly took more that $100,000 from his church? I could have chose a ton more of these small town examples where some feel that their title exempts there behavior. These folks, like me, choose a life that allows them to serve the public and the common good and when you are in these positions you cannot take the Randall approach. I am very aware of my behavior and what it could to do not only my professional life but my family.
Randall, although I adored your sentiment when I was 18 working in a gas station but I'm a grown up now and I can't roll with you. I will dig the movie out occasionally and laugh hysterically like I always have but I have kids now and title must help dictate my behavior.
http://www.stltoday.com/news/local/crime-and-courts/perry-county-sheriff-cited-in-caseyville-for-alleged-public-sex/article_5597249a-2aa1-11e1-8445-001a4bcf6878.html
http://news.wsiu.org/post/carbondale-pastor-accused-theft
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/01/06/mary-kay-letourneau-teacher-jailed_n_4550740.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R4Et5S_alCE (Warning-Explicit Content)
Welcome to Assorted Lightbulbs. My posts are probably only useful in certain situations at certain times. When they are not, they just sit in a metaphorical box on Blogger waiting to be needed. I heard a comedian once say that blogs are conversations that no one wanted to have with you. That is true. Enjoy!
Saturday, January 11, 2014
Sunday, December 8, 2013
Let Sandy Hook Families Rest
I was recently disturbed the other morning about the announcement that the Sandy Hook 911 tapes would be released. This comes near the one year anniversary of that horrific event. I asked myself, what is the purpose of releasing those tapes. Media outlets were hot after them and for what, another disturbing news story? I think if a mass shooting happened at the Associated Press office building they would be fighting g to protect those tapes from release. Why, because if you have been through such a tragic event then you know and understand the horror that those children went through that day. I myself have never been in a school shooting, but I have been close enough to understand that horror.
Shortly after the Sandy Hook shooting our school district and police department felt it was necessary to help teachers understand the experience of shots being fired in our school buildings. Police officers walked through our buildings as an active shooter might do firing off blanks indiscriminately. I did my administrative duty and positioned the officers as I thought they should go and allowed them to do their business. No sweat right? It wasn't until I found myself standing at the end of a hallway and the shooter was walking towards me firing his shotgun. The smell was aweful. The ceiling tiles rose and fell with each shot sending dust onto the floor. My school, and if you're a teacher you know it is your second home, was no longer my school. I couldn't help but feel like one of those kids, Horrified and alone even though many were standing right next to me. My halls were not my halls anymore. The school building innocence had left and I felt helpless. I never felt that this would be part of my career endeavors, active shooters and school safety. It's not what I signed up for. I have been asked many times since Sandy Hook if I would carry a side arm if allowed to a I always reply "absolutely not." That day has made me question my feelings on my profession, fatherhood, and manhood but I will not waiver on my core beliefs.
My job is to fix kids, not shoot them. The solutions to gun violence in our society are numerous but I still say you can't fix this problem without fixing people. When we fail to address social ills in society, it trickles into our institutions and then problems really take off and become more complex. We can write more laws and let people carry concealed firearms but those are easy fixes. Healing people is hard and takes time but it's the most challenging things are those that are most worth doing. Somebody famous said that but I'm not sure who. We are not fixing the people of Sandy Hook by making them relive that day and if news media outlets feel it is worth the story then we have more problems that just gun violence. We should be doing everything we can to never allow our children to hurt again. Not just by fire arm, but suicide and abuse too. I cannot express to you how much pain I help kids through each day and it is preventable. If we choose to be proactive and ensure the mental and physical well being of our kids, we won't have to react when it all comes tumbling down.
Saturday, November 16, 2013
106,000 Obamacare! Really?
The political fallout over Obamacare continues as it has been revealed that only 106,000 Americans signed up for health care coverage. This has been seen as a failure by those who opposed the presidents plan. That failure is now being exploited by republicans as they seek to win some elections as key races begin to take shape. The Tea Party is doing what they have set out to do.
The real answer to healthcare in this country is universal healthcare but In the spirit of fair play, democrats passed the law that they could get passed and now conservatives have demonized it. The shutdown and the demands connected to it only helped sway public opinion against Obamacare and the Tea Party will continue until they venture Into other areas that should be about common sense such as healthcare.
Well it looks like they already have. In their relentless efforts to cast Obama as a socialist the Tea Party has jumped I to the education world. Wow. I thought we were safe for the time being. Now Obama is a socialist because of the Common Core standards.
My first experience with learning about the Common Core was in 2007, before Obama was president. They were born out of the need to teach all of our students the same college and career readiness standards across the country. You know, so we can compete against other countries that are not comparable in their education systems. In fairness, No Child Left Behind and the accountability movement cannot have teeth if all the states are teaching different standards. Sure there are struggles with this issue on its own but to use it as a Tea Party issue is rediculous.
In states were initial assessments were done after implementing the Common Core a backlash occurred. First runs of testing showed lower test scores than expected so fear set in and resistance mounted. These early failures are to be expected seems that this a new endeavor and their will be growing pains. Instead it has become a new opportunity for the Tea Party to yet again bash the Democtrats and President Obama.
So, will the American people bite again? Can we see real issues for their merits or will we be driven to issues that don't exist? My misleading title led you to an issue I care about so it can be done. Like I've said before, keep your eye on the ball people.
http://money.cnn.com/2013/11/13/news/economy/obamacare-insurance/index.html
Saturday, September 21, 2013
Saving Face
This week the US House of Representatives voted to cut the food stamp program by billions and the squawking about welfare abuse is in the forefront. This reminds me of a time when I was in third grade and the teacher entered our classroom and it was very noisy. She promptly made us all write sentences as a consequence. Now we were not all talking but we all got punished. I often hear this same mentality when it comes to cutting welfare. "They're all gaming the system so we should take it away" seems to be the battle cry. I know there are people who do take advantage of the system but there is a good way to address it.
The statistics show that very little abuse of the system actually happens, or at least that is caught. We all have a built in bias that if someone is getting something for nothing that there is some game being played. This isn't always true. The gap between the rich and the poor is widening and welfare and food stamp programs help some people stay afloat and prevents children from starving. Now I do agree there needs to be some assurance that people are not using tax payer dollars on drugs, but to assume that everyone on welfare does so is unfair. It is reasonable to cut any waste but use the saved money for larger purposes.
Let me offer two thoughts. Here's an idea, cut some money from welfare if you want but use the dollars to investigate and prosecute welfare fraud. Here's an even bigger idea: start a war on poverty. Do we realize how many of the societal ills we argue about can be cured by eliminating poverty? Use savings to fund programs to help end poverty. The reality is that special interests won't allow that to happen. You see the vote that was just taken was not about how evil welfare is, it's about saving face with the republican base. Republican legislators will now have something to run on the next time around. It is not realistic that welfare will be cut that much or it will pass in a democratic senate. Deals will be made and the program will continue. The tactic of dangling social programs will continue as long as legislators want to keep their unproductive jobs. I've said it before, keep your eye on the ball people.
Sunday, September 8, 2013
Waiting For A Documentary
This is the start of my 7th year in administration. I spent five years in the classroom before I switched to the "dark side" and I feel I have lost the right to define myself as a teacher. I have accepted this but I will always accept the task of defending this noble profession. If you are one of the many that take on the life of being a teacher, God bless you. If you are a teacher because you needed a job or there wasn't that much math to take for that major, go find something else to do because we don't need you.
That's not why I am writing today. Davis Guggenheim is the filmmaker that brought us the documentary, Waiting For Superman. I have always been very critical of this film. It plays the blame game with our public schools without considering outside factors that frame the actual problems in education. He slammed the teachers unions, slammed school districts ways of dealing with poor teachers even when those protocols were dictated by state law. Putting your child in a charter school seems to be the only answer. This was the solution given without reporting the fact that charter schools fail at about the same rate at public schools. I saw the film as largely irresponsible and a disservice to hard working teachers.
CBS recently aired his latest work entitled "Teach". This seemed to be a better effort to empower people to rally around teachers and the work they do. Film makers followed four young teachers and chronicled their ups and downs in the struggle to help all of their students succeed. They put a real face on the effort teachers make and the time, frustration, and tears that go into being a real teacher. They even had celebrities show up and give shout outs to their favorite teachers.
Despite this improved effort Guggenheim still is missing the mark. Teaching and learning is a complex science that requires an artist to pull off. What the film fails to address is the well documented phenomenon of the state requiring more of us but giving us less to do it with. It fails to address the institution of the American family that sends us our clientele. An institution that has changed and in some ways eroded since the last generation. The truth is there is no single point of entry to fix education in America. So the answer at the state and federal level is to regulate. Add more expectations and more rules.
This tactic only skirts responsibility for those who help this problem continue. Telling you who to blame for a problem is how you win elections. Our kids and our country should not be dependent on politics but we allow it to happen. Maybe that should be the next film for Guggenheim. Make a film about where real decisions are made for schools. A place were a few are ruining the most noble task that local communities take on.
If you would like to see more on the efforts of Davis Guggenheim and the Gates Foundation, visit www.takepart.org.
Saturday, August 10, 2013
Pill vs. Pot
Recently the state of Illinois has thrown its hat into the medical marihuana ring. Not only that, CNN medical correspondent and doctor, Sanjay Gupta, announced he was wrong about the benefits of medical weed. This has sparked new debate over the issue and I'm sure the potheads will find a way out of their parent's basements to rally around the cause.
I will not say that cannabis is bad for people. Cancer patients, multiple sclerosis, and HIV/AIDS patients can no doubt benefit from its use to ease the side effects from their treatment. But why are we advocating smokable weed when it comes to a medical issue. People who smoke weed take in more tar and carbon monoxide than cigarette smokers do. We have entire movements trying to ruin big tobacco and there are people promoting smokable marihuana for "health" reasons? Doesn't make sense to me.
Their is a pill for everything these days and there is a pill for this. It's called Marinol and it is a much safer way to give these folks what they need. Granted it does take a little longer for the effect to set in but it does the job.
Now I'm happy to say that I'm a moderate liberal and I'm usually for doing what makes us happy. In this case I think we are headed down a slippery slope to recreational weed. So I say to lawmakers, have the guts and make the move. Don't hide behind the sentiment that you are helping patients when you don't even pay your bills to doctors and pharmacists. The "medical" tag on marijuana doesn't fly when there is a pill that does the same thing.
http://www.drugs.com/mtm/marinol.html
Tuesday, August 6, 2013
Baseball Cards
You can learn a lot about a player from his baseball
cards. Baseball cards fueled my passion
for the game. I collected and traded
like it was an addiction. I did the most
damage I could do with a paperboy’s earnings and to this day I have a great
collection to show for it. My most
sought after player was my favorite player, Mark David McGuire.
Growing up in So Ill it is hard to find an Oakland A’s game on TV. Baseball cards were a way to keep up with the
only team I made an effort to follow. I
can’t pinpoint when I became an Oakland
fan but I was dedicated. I collected
every card of every player on the team but I would trade anything away for a
Mark McGuire card. That grew into an
effort to try to swing like him, to throw like him and if I could have grown facial
hair, I would. I idolized him and by the
time I got to high school and took my freshman health class, I knew he was on
the juice. It’s a shame that it was obvious to a 14 year old that had only
minimal exposure to a health textbook.
My wildest dreams came true when not only Tony LaRussa came
to the Lou but so did my first baseball idol.
I knew he was a product of alleged cheating but I got the chance to find
some of my childhood in the games I saw him play at Busch. I was giddy and hoping for a homerun every time
he came to the plate and he delivered.
When he was identified as a cheater, it didn’t break my heart. That kind of thing was never on the back of
his baseball cards. I had slowly
accepted his choices over time and I never turned on him. I had amassed a great deal of love for him
and was loyal. I stand firm that using
steroids and PED’s are cheating and does not belong in professional
sports. My boyhood hero cheated and I
have made peace with that.
What’s left is a box of great baseball cards. I have rookie cards of nearly every player
associated with drug use. Aside from my
McGuire cards, Sosa cards, Clemens cards and so on I have memories of how I felt
about those players when I followed them.
I remember how excited I was about the game because baseball cards
brought me close to them. I kept these
cards because one day I know I will pass on the stories to my kids and hopefully
they will be turned on to the game as I was.
I will have to tell about how this era of the game was full of cheaters
and those looking for shortcuts but I will also have the pleasure of showing
them some other cards from the era. I
have cards for Cal Ripken, Tony Gwynn, Wade Boggs and many others who played
clean. I am a Cardinals fan and I know
how we feel about Albert Pujols, but I know when he hits his 500th homerun
he will have done it clean.
The hard reality is that some of our heroes aren’t really heroes,
they are just regular people who make bad choices. Natural talent wasn’t enough for my
hero. The thirst for big numbers and
success will made him experiment with the rules and the people around him. His story is one worth telling but not
because he was a fallen player but he has to live with his choices. He put up hall of fame numbers but will be
excluded until the writers feel he has suffered enough. He has to live with the long term effects of
a short term decision and that’s a life lesson worth teaching.
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)
The 10:1 Rule Remastered
I used to do speaking engagements and professional development on serving low-income students. One of the ways I encouraged my attendees to...
-
I really was tickled with a former student's Facebook post the other day. Robert Johnson was one of my favorite kids at Elverado Hi...
-
Recently, I stopped at a local gas station to fill up and get a soda. It was a brisk 19 degrees outside when I arrived there at about 7:30 ...
-
I recently had the pleasure of attending my daughter's college graduation. We are now alumni of the same university. Although I used t...

