Now the that the school year has started and the homework routine is taking shape, tempers are flaring over the Common Core. I completely understand people's frustrations and can sympathize. I have been helping my daughter with her math just about every night and the days of doing drill and kill are over. She is not being assigned 30 problems with the goal in mind to simply get an answer right. Now, students are asked to rethink how they find answers and to be critical of their own work. As a building administrator I am in no real position to take a side as to whether or not the standards are "good" or "bad". I have the task of making sure my teachers have the tools to teach them to my students. In this post I would like to offer some Common Core thought to fellow parents from a person in a unique position to see it a different way.
First off, the Common Core is not a bad thing on its face. The way it has played out has given us a bad taste in our mouths. You see, when No Child Left Behind was the mandate, all the states had their own standards but were held to a national expectation. In essence, a state could have very easy standards to help their kids test into compliance or a very difficult set of standards and hurt their kids and schools. There had to be a level playing field if a national mandate was to be fair. It became a political issue when the transition began, people got mad about harder homework and the fight against Obamacare started to fizzle. There always has to be a boogeyman.
I will use my daughter as my example. The last sheet I helped her with was multiplying base ten exponents. This was daunting to my 5th grader because it was new. A quick Googling of the Common Core State Standards would show that this is to be taught in the 5th grade. It is also to be covered in 3rd and 4th grade too. It was because the school had not yet moved completely into the CCSS and jumping into them was a shock to the system. It's a completely new skill that will not look new to the next classes to come in.
There also seems to be a "new" way to do math with the common core. I will say that the reason for this is two fold. Yes, the CCSS do ask kids to think more critically about the process of math. Yes the CCSS do seem to be a year beyond what kids were doing last year. My question is this, is it wrong to expect more out of our kids? The other way to look at it is that schools rushed to purchase CCSS aligned textbooks. My personal approach was to let our teachers review the standards, examine the materials they had and be able to answer the question, "do we have what we need?" The answer was yes because teachers are still artists and content experts. If we rush to buy new books then everyone feels like a robot to the CCSS. Creative teachers know how to make it work. Besides how much has math changed? Textbook profits are soaring right now because we were looking for a magic bullet.
Right now we are upset over the transition to the CCSS. The idea is not a bad one. Our kids do need to have better critical thinking skills and new careers require more math and technical skills. It cant be the worst thing in the world. We will survive this and another new movement in about ten years.
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Monday, September 8, 2014
Wednesday, July 23, 2014
My sole disappointment with President Obama
A Facebook friend posted an article about the job growth in the coal industry despite the alleged war on coal that was taking place. I re-posted it and of course it met some opposition from a coal company employee. I respect his position because he works in the coal industry. Even if I don't agree with the coal company owner's tactics, i do respect the man in the trenches everyday. In my response I realized that in the same span of time that the article was referring, thousands of education jobs have been taken and the nature of schooling is being rewritten as we speak. Now we are in my trenches.
I agree with Diane Ravitch in her book "Reign of Error" that the election of Barack Obama was a disappointment for education. Don't get me wrong, I am an Obama supporter. I voted for him twice. I believe his values guide his leadership and my values closely match up to his. However, the appointment of Arne Duncan led to a flurry of education policies that encourage too much testing and expanding charter schools, both of which lead to the privatization of our schools.
Schools cannot become big business like everything else in our lives. Schools seem to the the last people centered organizations we have and allowing companies to take over in the name of so-called accountability, will crumble our democracy. Dr. King on e said that a threat to justice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. We need to act to protect the last sacred piece of our democracy, schools. How you ask, in the voting booth.
I could care less which side of the isle you lean on. Don't be fooled by election politics. Demand that real issues are addressed. Here are some issues that effect education and don't be fooled by the talking heads.
1. The Common Core is not a political issue. It became a political issue when the Tea Party was running out of ideas. The standards are not all bad for Illinois. They are much better written that the old ones and we do need a universal set of standards if the Feds will continue to run with No Child Left Behind.
2. School funding. Schools cannot adequately be measured unless they are funded equally. No child in Illinois is better than the other but the current funding formula allows that type of thinking. School funding reform must take place to make sure the kids in poorer districts have the same shot as everyone else.
3. Poverty is a universally concerning issue but it impacts a child's education more than most people realize. If you candidate is not working to grow the middle class and reduce poverty stricken families in this state or our county, they should not be your candidate.
Partisan politics has ruined many aspects of our nation, but to play games with schools and kids is a whole other level of unforgivable. Demand more of our leaders. I still support president Obama even if I completely disagree with his education policy. I believe he can guide us to a bigger middle class and that good old fashioned prosperity that our grandparents used to tell us about. If I have to try and create mindless robots that know how to test well, at least they will be well fed and provided for.
Sunday, June 29, 2014
What's Wrong With These Crazy Kids? (Part 3)
The final contribution to the question, What’s wrong with
these crazy kids?, would be grown ups.
Yes, adults are what’s wrong with these crazy kids. While we find ways to blame the crumbling of
society and social institutions for this mess, we fail to see our own miscues. Let me give you a micro example of what I
mean. Recently, Gov. Pat Quinn signed
another bullying bill into law. More
regulations for schools that have little to do with what they are supposed to be
learning. All this government
intervention when the predominant risk factors for one to become a bully are
found in the home, not at school.
Factors such as seeing abuse in the home, permissive parenting, and
enduring sibling bullying are key predictors.
Despite this we take aim at our legislatures and simply provide them
with something to chat about come election time. When will we look in the mirror?
Lets take a look at some data trends concerning the
behaviors and attitudes among young adults.
You know, the ones that will have children. In a national survey conducted as recently as
2011, 77% of women felt that having a child out of wedlock was okay. 70% of men felt the same way. This is a growing attitude despite what we
know about how well kids do in two-parent households. More kids are raised in poverty in a single
parent household and are less likely to be read to as a small child. Shouldn’t the percentage of the not okays be
this much? The percentage of women who
are married at the time of their first born is down and the number of women who
are co-habitating is up. That’s not to
say that the child is not being loved and supported but the institution of
marriage is not perceived as valuable as it once was. We know what the divorce rate is but do we
know the consequence of it? Only about
75% of men reported that they contribute child support regularly. That’s the response from the men. I would have loved to see the response from
the women if I could have found it. It
is also reported that 1.9 million children live in homes that are headed up by
a relative that is not the child’s parent.
Our homes are breaking. You can
blame it on the economy but we have been on this slide for a while now.
What is it that will
not allow us to look at ourselves before we lay blame on the government, or the
schools or whatever comes along? Is it
easier to lobby a state legislature to pass a law that is vague before we form
family support groups in our communities?
I’ve said before that we need to keep our eye on the ball. The stakes are higher when it comes to our
kids. To keep with the same analogy, why
worry about who makes the ball and not worry if we are swinging at the right
pitch. These crazy kids need us to
parent them and be champions of the values that help them to be better
kids. If we don’t have our house in
order, they won’t either.
http://www.childstats.gov/index.asp
Saturday, June 14, 2014
What's Wrong With These Crazy Kids? (Part 2)
For part two of this extended post I would like to focus on my profession. My disclaimer is that this point of view has nothing to do with my job or how I carry it out. This is simply an observation of a social ill that I happen to have a front row seat for.
Schools are changing. Well, lets say schools are being forced to change. There is a movement in this country to demand customer service in our schools. The school house has always been the place where middle class values and local culture has been transmitted to the students who will become the future of that community. Those days are gone in most communities. Lets look at some examples.
Schools have become the bad guy. I check my news feeds everyday looking for education related news. When I step outside the news of my professional sources and look at mainstream media, I will always find stories about schools. The problem is that these stories are about the very small percentage of incidents of when people do lousy things in schools. Throwing away lunches, school shootings, sexual offenses against students and so on. This is what is broadcast to the masses and shapes public opinion. Don't get me wrong, when bad things happen there needs to be an appropriate response to protect our children but school coverage is much like airline crash coverage. When a jet goes down resulting in casualties, there is a huge uproar and there should be to a degree. I realize that people lose loved ones and it is very hurtful to the parties involved but these incidents are a very few compared to the number flights that operate smoothly everyday. Schools are the same way. For every one student that is genuinely affected by a lousy teacher, a hundred million are either taught or saved from their difficult environment. The problem is that all teachers pay the price when one teacher screws up.
How does this manifest itself? Lets take this perception and apply it to behavior management in school. When I was a kid, we were swatted with a paddle and it was completely agreeable with our communities because corporal punishment was acceptable in the home. Growing distrust has eroded the symbiotic relationship that the school and home used to have. Our house rule was that if you got it at school you would get it twice when you got home. This is not a call to bring back swatting but there is big difference between then and now. Now, if you got punished at school there has to be a legal team set up, online petitions, and appearances at school board meetings just to prove my baby didn't do what that dumb school says he/she did. Schools are forced to change. They have to spend a great deal of time bridging these gaps with the community and developing creative discipline solutions to prevent the drama and distraction that an angry parent has created. Schools and parents need to be on the same page. When we are not, the kids see it and use it as a tool.
Here is one of my favorites, sports and coaches. We have a problem of spending too much time on bad coaches and not seeing how good the good ones actually are. Yes there are bad coaches but that could be a series of books rather than a series of blogs. My very first angry parent experience as an administrator was over football and ironically my worst ever school experience was over football. The dad of a 5'2", 100 pound freshman was very upset that his son was not getting to practice with the varsity squad. His could can do this, do that, run this fast and so on. My simple response that maybe the coach did not feel he was ready for that type of environment and that he should focus on the playing opportunities that he was getting for a kid his size. This was not good enough. He went on a rant and explained to me that the football coach from a neighboring town has already told him that he would love to have his son and would play him on the varsity team. He went on to say that if this school would not recognize his talent, then he would move him to that district. My response: tell them we said hi. I probably shouldn't have said that but my disdain for customer service in schools would not let me hold my mouth. The truth is over the last seven years I have had several students leave my schools for what they consider to be greener pastures. They have come to find out their personal troubles with schools always follow them.
My fear is becoming a business opportunity. When opportunists see this conflict a chance to make money always follows. Its the American way. There is a movement to privatize schools in this country and my friends, this is not good. The boom in charter schools and increasing calls for choice are making a corporate enterprise out of one of the last pure things in this country. I recently posted a story to my Twitter page about the FBI conducting raids on a charter school company(?) and my thoughts were of corruption. Some of these schools were in Illinois and tied to Mike Madigan. We already put up with this crap in every other aspect of our lives and now we must keep it from over taking our schools. A very good once over of the pros and cons of school privatization can be found at http://www.debate.org/opinions/should-education-be-privatized but I will tell you that I feel it is not a good path to travel.
Schools are a community building enterprise and if we don't treat it that way, it will become a money making enterprise. We all have to step up and show responsibility for OUR kids or we wont have that opportunity any more. Our loss of the old sense of community and trust helps make crazy kids and we all share an obligation to get it back.
http://dianeravitch.net/2014/06/13/fbi-raids-19-gulen-charter-schools-in-midwest/
Schools are changing. Well, lets say schools are being forced to change. There is a movement in this country to demand customer service in our schools. The school house has always been the place where middle class values and local culture has been transmitted to the students who will become the future of that community. Those days are gone in most communities. Lets look at some examples.
Schools have become the bad guy. I check my news feeds everyday looking for education related news. When I step outside the news of my professional sources and look at mainstream media, I will always find stories about schools. The problem is that these stories are about the very small percentage of incidents of when people do lousy things in schools. Throwing away lunches, school shootings, sexual offenses against students and so on. This is what is broadcast to the masses and shapes public opinion. Don't get me wrong, when bad things happen there needs to be an appropriate response to protect our children but school coverage is much like airline crash coverage. When a jet goes down resulting in casualties, there is a huge uproar and there should be to a degree. I realize that people lose loved ones and it is very hurtful to the parties involved but these incidents are a very few compared to the number flights that operate smoothly everyday. Schools are the same way. For every one student that is genuinely affected by a lousy teacher, a hundred million are either taught or saved from their difficult environment. The problem is that all teachers pay the price when one teacher screws up.
How does this manifest itself? Lets take this perception and apply it to behavior management in school. When I was a kid, we were swatted with a paddle and it was completely agreeable with our communities because corporal punishment was acceptable in the home. Growing distrust has eroded the symbiotic relationship that the school and home used to have. Our house rule was that if you got it at school you would get it twice when you got home. This is not a call to bring back swatting but there is big difference between then and now. Now, if you got punished at school there has to be a legal team set up, online petitions, and appearances at school board meetings just to prove my baby didn't do what that dumb school says he/she did. Schools are forced to change. They have to spend a great deal of time bridging these gaps with the community and developing creative discipline solutions to prevent the drama and distraction that an angry parent has created. Schools and parents need to be on the same page. When we are not, the kids see it and use it as a tool.
Here is one of my favorites, sports and coaches. We have a problem of spending too much time on bad coaches and not seeing how good the good ones actually are. Yes there are bad coaches but that could be a series of books rather than a series of blogs. My very first angry parent experience as an administrator was over football and ironically my worst ever school experience was over football. The dad of a 5'2", 100 pound freshman was very upset that his son was not getting to practice with the varsity squad. His could can do this, do that, run this fast and so on. My simple response that maybe the coach did not feel he was ready for that type of environment and that he should focus on the playing opportunities that he was getting for a kid his size. This was not good enough. He went on a rant and explained to me that the football coach from a neighboring town has already told him that he would love to have his son and would play him on the varsity team. He went on to say that if this school would not recognize his talent, then he would move him to that district. My response: tell them we said hi. I probably shouldn't have said that but my disdain for customer service in schools would not let me hold my mouth. The truth is over the last seven years I have had several students leave my schools for what they consider to be greener pastures. They have come to find out their personal troubles with schools always follow them.
My fear is becoming a business opportunity. When opportunists see this conflict a chance to make money always follows. Its the American way. There is a movement to privatize schools in this country and my friends, this is not good. The boom in charter schools and increasing calls for choice are making a corporate enterprise out of one of the last pure things in this country. I recently posted a story to my Twitter page about the FBI conducting raids on a charter school company(?) and my thoughts were of corruption. Some of these schools were in Illinois and tied to Mike Madigan. We already put up with this crap in every other aspect of our lives and now we must keep it from over taking our schools. A very good once over of the pros and cons of school privatization can be found at http://www.debate.org/opinions/should-education-be-privatized but I will tell you that I feel it is not a good path to travel.
Schools are a community building enterprise and if we don't treat it that way, it will become a money making enterprise. We all have to step up and show responsibility for OUR kids or we wont have that opportunity any more. Our loss of the old sense of community and trust helps make crazy kids and we all share an obligation to get it back.
http://dianeravitch.net/2014/06/13/fbi-raids-19-gulen-charter-schools-in-midwest/
Saturday, June 7, 2014
What's Wrong With These Crazy Kids? (Part 1)
As an educator and administrator I often hear parents ask this question, "What wrong with these kids these days?" The answers do not lie far from us but we seem to always miss the ball. In the first part of this three part blog, I would like to look at the most powerful thing in our kids lives, media.
Media surrounds us. From the first days of television to the information that gets shoved into our smartphones waiting for us to consume it. It is all around us literally. This is not a bad thing but what has come through media over the past few decades is a matter of discussion. Lets take television to begin with. In 1956 when Elvis appeared on the Ed Sullivan show, his trademark pelvis was shoved off of the screen. By the third time he appeared on the show, cameras would only show his upper half. Fast forward to the last ten years or so. I often joke with my students that the M in MTV stands for Morse Code. Why, because every time I turn it on all I hear is beeps. That's not to mention the pervasive conduct and dastardly moral situations that arise in many reality programming that is aired. I hear what you are saying, well that's cable television and if you pay for it should be allowed a little more leeway. What about network television? I saw in the popular show "Scandal" a couple having sex doggystyle over an office table. That makes the hips of Elvis look a little tame to me. My point is, the evolution television content is troubling and the examples of such could go on and on.
I was 12 once and I could not be completely sheltered from dirty words. I remember sneaking my NWA and 2 Live Crew tapes into my room and listening to it them for hours on end. The difference today is that back then, you had to sneak those tapes around and today you just have to turn on the radio. The lyrics in many pop songs may not have feature the F word or the N word but you can definitely tell what is being said around the loose efforts of censorship that does take place. Take the song "Guerilla" by Bruno Mars as an example. No cuss words but we know exactly what he is talking about. My 10 year old daughter knows every word somehow so I tunr the station if it comes on. I try not to keep up with pop music but I feel like I have to. There is some dance/techno song out now that has no words except for the line "We're just f**king animals!" in it. Seriously? Maybe I am now officially old but come on man.
Here's a can of worms - the internet. Wow the questionable content flows like wine doesn't it? We as parents can have some control over my first two examples but this one is a bit of a trick. You can get any crazy thing you want off of the world wide web and there are very few safeguards for parents. Well, I should say few that the kids have not yet figured a way around yet. My son and daughter love the game Minecraft on their iPads. I think its great. It is a great tool to foster creativity if you can deal with all the lingo and zombie stuff. Like any body, when you want to improve your space on Minecraft you simply go to the internet and surely you can find ideas. My five year old discovered this and he found Youtube videos with walkthroughs and how to's. Great right? Wrong, the narrator used scores of profanity in his video and we had to shut it down. Now, it is fair to say that my five year has no clue what those words mean but we cannot let him think that it is acceptable language. If we let is slide, we are letting the internet do our parenting and that is what has been happing with our kids. They are cultured to believe sex and being sexy is normal, then we send them to school and tell them its not. We wonder why they are so frustrated.
Who is to blame for all of this? There has to be a scapegoat. First I will say look in the mirror and I need to as well. We have to be the change we want to see. That's should sound familiar. There is a reason though that we have went from covering Elvis' hips in the 50's to allowing cartoon characters in South Park to have gay sex on screen. As always, follow the money. The FCC determines the standards for censorship and over the past few decades it has gotten way more liberal. Now you Obama haters should not start any new bumper stickers just yet. I said past few decades. A review of congressional contributions by the media industry shows a large growth from 1998 to now. The largest donor is Comcast. The largest recipient, Alison Grimes who is running against Mitch McConnell for a Kentucky Senate seat. Traditionally they contribute more to Democrats but the flow of money is troubling. Just like anything else that smells funny in this country, we should be looking for the campaign money. Are we willing to solve the problem politically? Is there a lobby for people that just a want a shot at raising their kids right? the answer is no and that's why it continues. Sometimes parenting has to be done in the voting booth.
http://www.opensecrets.org/industries/indus.php?ind=B02
http://www.cnn.com/2007/LIVING/wayoflife/07/31/censorship/
Media surrounds us. From the first days of television to the information that gets shoved into our smartphones waiting for us to consume it. It is all around us literally. This is not a bad thing but what has come through media over the past few decades is a matter of discussion. Lets take television to begin with. In 1956 when Elvis appeared on the Ed Sullivan show, his trademark pelvis was shoved off of the screen. By the third time he appeared on the show, cameras would only show his upper half. Fast forward to the last ten years or so. I often joke with my students that the M in MTV stands for Morse Code. Why, because every time I turn it on all I hear is beeps. That's not to mention the pervasive conduct and dastardly moral situations that arise in many reality programming that is aired. I hear what you are saying, well that's cable television and if you pay for it should be allowed a little more leeway. What about network television? I saw in the popular show "Scandal" a couple having sex doggystyle over an office table. That makes the hips of Elvis look a little tame to me. My point is, the evolution television content is troubling and the examples of such could go on and on.
I was 12 once and I could not be completely sheltered from dirty words. I remember sneaking my NWA and 2 Live Crew tapes into my room and listening to it them for hours on end. The difference today is that back then, you had to sneak those tapes around and today you just have to turn on the radio. The lyrics in many pop songs may not have feature the F word or the N word but you can definitely tell what is being said around the loose efforts of censorship that does take place. Take the song "Guerilla" by Bruno Mars as an example. No cuss words but we know exactly what he is talking about. My 10 year old daughter knows every word somehow so I tunr the station if it comes on. I try not to keep up with pop music but I feel like I have to. There is some dance/techno song out now that has no words except for the line "We're just f**king animals!" in it. Seriously? Maybe I am now officially old but come on man.
Here's a can of worms - the internet. Wow the questionable content flows like wine doesn't it? We as parents can have some control over my first two examples but this one is a bit of a trick. You can get any crazy thing you want off of the world wide web and there are very few safeguards for parents. Well, I should say few that the kids have not yet figured a way around yet. My son and daughter love the game Minecraft on their iPads. I think its great. It is a great tool to foster creativity if you can deal with all the lingo and zombie stuff. Like any body, when you want to improve your space on Minecraft you simply go to the internet and surely you can find ideas. My five year old discovered this and he found Youtube videos with walkthroughs and how to's. Great right? Wrong, the narrator used scores of profanity in his video and we had to shut it down. Now, it is fair to say that my five year has no clue what those words mean but we cannot let him think that it is acceptable language. If we let is slide, we are letting the internet do our parenting and that is what has been happing with our kids. They are cultured to believe sex and being sexy is normal, then we send them to school and tell them its not. We wonder why they are so frustrated.
Who is to blame for all of this? There has to be a scapegoat. First I will say look in the mirror and I need to as well. We have to be the change we want to see. That's should sound familiar. There is a reason though that we have went from covering Elvis' hips in the 50's to allowing cartoon characters in South Park to have gay sex on screen. As always, follow the money. The FCC determines the standards for censorship and over the past few decades it has gotten way more liberal. Now you Obama haters should not start any new bumper stickers just yet. I said past few decades. A review of congressional contributions by the media industry shows a large growth from 1998 to now. The largest donor is Comcast. The largest recipient, Alison Grimes who is running against Mitch McConnell for a Kentucky Senate seat. Traditionally they contribute more to Democrats but the flow of money is troubling. Just like anything else that smells funny in this country, we should be looking for the campaign money. Are we willing to solve the problem politically? Is there a lobby for people that just a want a shot at raising their kids right? the answer is no and that's why it continues. Sometimes parenting has to be done in the voting booth.
http://www.opensecrets.org/industries/indus.php?ind=B02
http://www.cnn.com/2007/LIVING/wayoflife/07/31/censorship/
Saturday, January 11, 2014
Title Dictates Behavior, I Think
I recently saw that Mary K Letourneau was in the news and it took me back a ways. You remember her. The teachers that had sex with a 12 year old student, served prison time, a number of related Lifetime movies followed, she married the young man and had children with him. She was arrested Sunday night and booked into jail early Monday for failing to appear in court for a suspended driver's license case.
If you were or are a teacher I know enraged you were that she conducted herself in those days because it gave all teachers a bad name. We were lumped in with her behavior like all policemen were after Rodney King. But just like Randall, from the movie Clerks, says "title does not dictate behavior." Even though we are talking about convenience store employees, Randall is right. Title does not dictate behavior especially if you look at some our more recent local folks that should have lived by this mantra.
Lets not forget Perry County Sheriff was caught in a car with a man allegedly engaged in a sex act in Caseyville. What about Pastor Joshua Swain who allegedly took more that $100,000 from his church? I could have chose a ton more of these small town examples where some feel that their title exempts there behavior. These folks, like me, choose a life that allows them to serve the public and the common good and when you are in these positions you cannot take the Randall approach. I am very aware of my behavior and what it could to do not only my professional life but my family.
Randall, although I adored your sentiment when I was 18 working in a gas station but I'm a grown up now and I can't roll with you. I will dig the movie out occasionally and laugh hysterically like I always have but I have kids now and title must help dictate my behavior.
http://www.stltoday.com/news/local/crime-and-courts/perry-county-sheriff-cited-in-caseyville-for-alleged-public-sex/article_5597249a-2aa1-11e1-8445-001a4bcf6878.html
http://news.wsiu.org/post/carbondale-pastor-accused-theft
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/01/06/mary-kay-letourneau-teacher-jailed_n_4550740.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R4Et5S_alCE (Warning-Explicit Content)
If you were or are a teacher I know enraged you were that she conducted herself in those days because it gave all teachers a bad name. We were lumped in with her behavior like all policemen were after Rodney King. But just like Randall, from the movie Clerks, says "title does not dictate behavior." Even though we are talking about convenience store employees, Randall is right. Title does not dictate behavior especially if you look at some our more recent local folks that should have lived by this mantra.
Lets not forget Perry County Sheriff was caught in a car with a man allegedly engaged in a sex act in Caseyville. What about Pastor Joshua Swain who allegedly took more that $100,000 from his church? I could have chose a ton more of these small town examples where some feel that their title exempts there behavior. These folks, like me, choose a life that allows them to serve the public and the common good and when you are in these positions you cannot take the Randall approach. I am very aware of my behavior and what it could to do not only my professional life but my family.
Randall, although I adored your sentiment when I was 18 working in a gas station but I'm a grown up now and I can't roll with you. I will dig the movie out occasionally and laugh hysterically like I always have but I have kids now and title must help dictate my behavior.
http://www.stltoday.com/news/local/crime-and-courts/perry-county-sheriff-cited-in-caseyville-for-alleged-public-sex/article_5597249a-2aa1-11e1-8445-001a4bcf6878.html
http://news.wsiu.org/post/carbondale-pastor-accused-theft
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/01/06/mary-kay-letourneau-teacher-jailed_n_4550740.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R4Et5S_alCE (Warning-Explicit Content)
Sunday, December 8, 2013
Let Sandy Hook Families Rest
I was recently disturbed the other morning about the announcement that the Sandy Hook 911 tapes would be released. This comes near the one year anniversary of that horrific event. I asked myself, what is the purpose of releasing those tapes. Media outlets were hot after them and for what, another disturbing news story? I think if a mass shooting happened at the Associated Press office building they would be fighting g to protect those tapes from release. Why, because if you have been through such a tragic event then you know and understand the horror that those children went through that day. I myself have never been in a school shooting, but I have been close enough to understand that horror.
Shortly after the Sandy Hook shooting our school district and police department felt it was necessary to help teachers understand the experience of shots being fired in our school buildings. Police officers walked through our buildings as an active shooter might do firing off blanks indiscriminately. I did my administrative duty and positioned the officers as I thought they should go and allowed them to do their business. No sweat right? It wasn't until I found myself standing at the end of a hallway and the shooter was walking towards me firing his shotgun. The smell was aweful. The ceiling tiles rose and fell with each shot sending dust onto the floor. My school, and if you're a teacher you know it is your second home, was no longer my school. I couldn't help but feel like one of those kids, Horrified and alone even though many were standing right next to me. My halls were not my halls anymore. The school building innocence had left and I felt helpless. I never felt that this would be part of my career endeavors, active shooters and school safety. It's not what I signed up for. I have been asked many times since Sandy Hook if I would carry a side arm if allowed to a I always reply "absolutely not." That day has made me question my feelings on my profession, fatherhood, and manhood but I will not waiver on my core beliefs.
My job is to fix kids, not shoot them. The solutions to gun violence in our society are numerous but I still say you can't fix this problem without fixing people. When we fail to address social ills in society, it trickles into our institutions and then problems really take off and become more complex. We can write more laws and let people carry concealed firearms but those are easy fixes. Healing people is hard and takes time but it's the most challenging things are those that are most worth doing. Somebody famous said that but I'm not sure who. We are not fixing the people of Sandy Hook by making them relive that day and if news media outlets feel it is worth the story then we have more problems that just gun violence. We should be doing everything we can to never allow our children to hurt again. Not just by fire arm, but suicide and abuse too. I cannot express to you how much pain I help kids through each day and it is preventable. If we choose to be proactive and ensure the mental and physical well being of our kids, we won't have to react when it all comes tumbling down.
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