It Ain't Easy Being Purple

Your civics teacher should have taught you at some point that George Washington was not a fan of political parties.  In fact, in his farewll address, he said, " However [political parties] may now and then answer popular ends, they are likely in the course of time and things, to become potent engines, by which cunning, ambitious, and unprincipled men will be enabled to subvert the power of the people and to usurp for themselves the reins of government, destroying afterwards the very engines which have lifted them to unjust dominion."

How is it that all those years ago, he could see into the future and know what damage this would cause?  He was actually concerned about the hearts of men and what they are capable of.  He didn't need ChatGPT to get a grasp on this.

All the red state, blue state stuff is a movement away from what we are supposed to be.  A purple country.

Recently, there has been a race on both sides to redistrict congressional maps to help create red or blue states.  Some say that it's because Republicans can't win enough seats on their own.  Others say that Democrats have to play this game to win back much-needed seats.  I say both sides are trying to vote for you instead of you voting for them.  This was not the intention of the founding fathers, but rather the power grab of, see above, "cunning, ambitious, and unprincipled men."

I am a moderate Democrat who has voted for many Republican candidates in the past.  It's not difficult to look at your candidates and select who you think would be most effective for that particular office.  Being purple means you can dismiss the cults of personality and see your candidates and their views for what they actually are.

It ain't easy being purple these days.  Those cunning, ambitious, and unprincipled men know how to separate us and convince us that government isn't about actually governing, but about whose ideas make you the most angry.

Government was meant to work for the people.  Government is about service, and if the shutdown fiasco is teaching us anything, it's that we, the people, are no longer part of the equation.  If we want to be the change, we have to think purple in the voting booth.  It's the only way to send the message.  Being purple means we can take the best parts from both sides and select politicians who will do the same for us when they are in office.

I know this means having to admit that the other side might be right sometimes, and that will be hard for many.  But it also means that we are capable of electing people who are willing to serve.  This is what Washington and our other founding fathers were after all those years ago.

Failing Forward

 

This was the scene at a local library not too long ago.  I was asked to come and promote my new book, Nine Ways to Make Awesome Kids.  I had visited this library for a similar event for my first book.  It was well attended and generated some great conversation.  For this one, no one showed.

This is not the only failure I'm realizing with this project.  To date, it has only sold three copies on Amazon and zero copies on Barnes & Noble.  I have given away ten copies.  The Facebook page I created to stimulate conversation around the book was shuttered very quickly due to low participation, despite paying for boosts and ads.  I even created a wide variety of Reels to share on Instagram and Facebook.  My hopes of creating a podcast around the book also faded when I could not find a suitable co-host.  The gears just never got turning.

I might accept these failures, but I am not happy with them.  I had two offers to publish this book, but I declined them because I did not want to pay a share of the investment to get it off the ground.  Maybe I should have, but I wanted to keep full control of my work.  So why am I telling you this?

Writing a book is hard folks.  When you have something to say and start outlining a project, you go into a strange state of flow that you never experienced when being forced to write in high school or college.  You know, back when you desperately just tried to get to the word count for a paper.  This is different.  You might take an hour to write one sentence or spend an hour writing ten pages.  It's hard to explain the self doubt you may have over one single line but you will stare at it endlessly until it makes sense.  

There is really no money in this, unless you write for a living.  I do not, but I feel I have a set of experiences and a perspective that I think people might want to read about.  So when I see that the book is not selling, I am only discouraged that the message I'm sending is not being received.  You want the work you put in to be read and taken to task.  This is how ideas are exchanged and new ideas take hold.  I truly feel Nine Ways has a place in our current state of parenting and teaching.  Not everyone feels the same it seems.

I've already been asked if I plan on writing another book.  My response is that I am not even thinking about it.  To many, it seems like writing a book is like running a marathon.  Once it's done, it is done and then you stand back and say, "Look what I did."  This is not the case for authors.  You want the work to be read and to endure and when it's not, you can't help breaking it down and being critical of yourself.

Failure is part of this game and I will lick my wounds and go on.  The idea is to always fail forward towards something better and I will keep trying to do that.  The good news is that I have a day job to fall back on.

You can purchase Nine Ways at https://a.co/d/8MwyWaS

You can purchase Leaving Poverty at https://a.co/d/bfxuWb3

Rage Sells Thanks to Section 230

 I taught high school civics many moons ago and with out sounding too grandiose, it was one of the best parts of my professional life.  Kids come in with a notion of our freedoms that is inspiring, but you have to help them pump the brakes and learn the rules.  This is especially true with the freedom of speech.

Freedom of speech is back in the headlines after the high profile murder of Charlie Kirk.  With the Trump administration on high alert, they have taken aim at journalists and network news.  People on both sides are fired up and making every attempt to blame the other.  If I'm being honest, both sides share blame for the direction of political discourse in our country.  The cynic in me would like to point out that politicians are part of a larger brand (Democrat or Republican) and not service oriented as we elect them to be.  This is why we see them voting party lines, even at the local level.  They have to maintain the brand so they can keep base voters.  To keep base voters, they must rely on their coverage in the media and what kind of engagement they get online just as if they were selling a product.

This I where I want to jump in.  Our lives online have gotten out of control.  Professor Scott Galloway recently said that sex no longer sells. Rage is now how you get engagement with a brand.  A great micro example is the Sydney Sweeney controversy with her jeans ad.  The ads were not revealing by today's standards, but revealing that she is a Republican was troubling for many for some strange reason.  The play book is that if you can gin up enough outrage, people will follow you.  The problem with this is that we re hurting ourselves and each other because of it.

How many of you have heard of Section 230 of the Communications Act?  It may not be important to you, but it is wildly important to social media companies.  The law and subsequent court decisions holds that the social media company is not liable for content that is published by its users.  It only says they have to make good faith effort to moderate.  As we know, moderation is often left to the users and this is not a workable system for those who lack self control.

When I left Twitter, their in-app moderation tools were failing and I was continually getting hateful content that I was trying to eliminate from my feed.  I leave and move to Treads where I was inundated right away with content about how bad teachers are and why everyone should be homeschooled.  Rage does indeed sell.  The engagement on these posts was astonishing.  I have never really been able to produce that kind of engagement on my own by sending positive vibes.

If we want to make a difference for ourselves and our children in the area of free speech, we have to take a bigger look at Section 230 and why it needs to go away.  While politicians are pointing fingers to protect their voting base, a young man is being radicalized online and planning a violent act against someone or themselves.  This is what we have learned from recent mass shootings and high profile murders.  The shooters political ideologies are not solid, but they were all radicalized against their targets on social media or in the gaming world.  Why would we not eliminate Section 230 and spare ourselves from this?

This also requires effort on our part.  If rage sells, we have to stop participating.  The social media companies make money hand over fist because we allow it.  This is why 230 has no chance of going away.  The ad money they make from us goes to lobbyists to protect the company's interest.  We have a part to play to protect ourselves and the mental health of our children.  What is stopping us?

There's a saying that your rights end where the next man's nose begins.  When it comes to free speech, the next man's nose is very bloody right now and no one should not be okay with it.  Take a look at your own behavior, the content your kids are consuming, and be vocal about the things that matter most.  Not the protection of your feelings, but the hate we let in as we mindlessly scroll social media.  We have to take control over this.  Eliminating 230 is only a start, we have to do the rest.